‘LIFE IS A DARING ADVENTURE OR NOTHING: SECURITY IS MOSTLY A SUPERSTITION’ Helen Keller Do you ever find yourself repeating patterns in your relationships, classes or internal thought processes? We often get so caught up in being comfortable, or within our perceived ‘ways to be comfortable’ that we resist changing: ourselves, our surroundings or our relationships. I was walking along in Kohimarama, the area in which we are living in Auckland, New Zealand, contemplating this very thing, whe...